While being a hot girl might seem like an elusive goal, it’s definitely something you can achieve! Everyone has their own definition of what’s “hot,” so there’s no one way to be a hottie. If you want to achieve hot girl status, create a look that shows your best features and practice showing off your personality in social situations. Additionally, build up your confidence because it’s the key to being hot and take good care of yourself to help you glow from the inside.[1]XExpert Source
Chloée Ohayon-CrosbyCostume Designer & Wardrobe SpecialistExpert Interview. 24 July 2020.
StepsMethod 1Method 1 of 4:Creating Your Hot Look
1Create a wardrobe that makes you feel hot. When you feel hot, your confidence will show, which makes people find you attractive.[2]XExpert Source
Chloée Ohayon-CrosbyCostume Designer & Wardrobe SpecialistExpert Interview. 24 July 2020. Go through your closet and try on all of your clothes. Keep only the clothes that make you feel fabulous. When you go shopping, only buy items that help you feel your best.[3]XResearch sourceYou don’t need to wear expensive or revealing clothes to be hot. What’s important is that you feel attractive because other people will pick up on that.
Tip: Wearing red will draw all eyes to you and can make people see you as sexy. As another option, try bright colors to get more attention.
2Show off a little skin, but keep something to the imagination. Revealing clothing is undeniably sexy, so a low neckline, cropped top, or short skirt are great for creating a hot look. However, showing off too much skin can give people a negative perception of you. To keep your look hot, choose 1 revealing piece for each outfit you wear[4]XExpert Source
Chloée Ohayon-CrosbyCostume Designer & Wardrobe SpecialistExpert Interview. 24 July 2020.For instance, pair a top with a plunging neckline with a knee-length pencil skirt, wear a crop top with a maxi skirt or skinny jeans, and pair a mini skirt with a top that covers both your cleavage and your stomach.Advertisement
3Wear heels to create a sexy silhouette. You don’t always need to wear heels, but they’re a quick way to boost your sex appeal. Heels change the curvature of your spine, so they naturally enhance your bum and breasts. In addition to creating a sexy silhouette, they can also make you feel sexier, and that confidence will make you look hotter.[5]XResearch sourceWearing heels that are a similar color to your skin tone will help your legs look longer.If you have trouble walking in heels, practice at home to help you get better.
4Highlight your best features so people focus on them.[6]XExpert Source
Chloée Ohayon-CrosbyCostume Designer & Wardrobe SpecialistExpert Interview. 24 July 2020. While you might think that the hot people around you look perfect, that’s just not true because no one is perfect. However, “hot” people are typically better at recognizing their best features. Stand in front of a mirror and figure out what you love most about yourself. Play up these features instead of worrying about what you don’t like.[7]XResearch sourceFor instance, you might think your eyes are your best facial feature, so you could wear bold eye makeup to draw people’s eyes to them. Similarly, you might think that your legs and toned arms are your most attractive body parts, so you might choose outfits that show them off.
5Use makeup to bring out your best features. While you don’t need makeup to be hot, it can help you enhance your natural beauty if you enjoy wearing it. Use online tutorials to help you improve your makeup technique. Then, use makeup to play up your features.[8]XResearch sourceFor instance, try a smokey eye, wear red lipstick, or contour your face.If you’re playing up your eyes, go with a subtle lip shade. Similarly, keep your eye makeup basic if you’re doing a bold lip.If you’re not allowed to use makeup or you don’t like wearing it, don’t feel like you need it to be hot. Embracing your natural beauty can also make you a “hot” girl!
6Get a hairstyle that flatters your face. Great looking hair helps you look your best, and the key to having a great hairstyle is to get a cut that looks great on you. Pick a style that fits your face shape and hair texture. Look for inspiration online or ask your hairstylist for advice.[9]XResearch sourceWhen you get your hairstyle, ask your stylist how to care for it and style it. Then, follow their advice so your hair looks great every day.
Tip: Embrace your natural hair texture instead of trying to fight it. This will make it easier to care for and style your hair.
7Maintain good posture so your body looks its best. Using good posture makes you appear more confident and makes your body look its best. To have better posture, stand up straight and roll your shoulders back. Additionally, keep your chin tilted up and direct your gaze forward.[10]XResearch sourceAvoid hunching your shoulders or leaning forward while you walk.
8Smile and laugh a lot to draw people to you. When you’re laughing and smiling, people are drawn to you. Additionally, it brightens up your face and makes you look more attractive. Practice smiling and laughing so that it comes naturally to you.[11]XResearch sourceSmile at yourself in the mirror to practice your expressions.When you’re laughing, people think you’re fun, so they want to be around you more.AdvertisementMethod 2Method 2 of 4:Showing off Your Personality
1Make eye contact with people when you encounter them. Looking people in the eye creates an instant connection with them and draws people to you. When you’re around people, make brief eye contact with them. Simply meet their eyes and then look away. When you’re talking to someone, maintain eye contact so they feel really heard.[12]XResearch sourceDon’t stare at people because that can make them uncomfortable.If you’re uncomfortable making eye contact, practice by staring at yourself in the mirror or making eye contact with someone you love.
2Adopt a positive attitude so people enjoy being around you. When you’re positive, people see you as being attractive and fun. Make a habit of looking for positives and pointing them out to others. Additionally, try to see the glass half-full when things are going wrong. This might be hard at first, but it’ll get easy with practice.[13]XResearch sourceFor instance, let’s say it’s raining outside and you get wet on your way into work. Instead of feeling like your day is off to a bad start, you could think about the positives that the rain brings, like lower temperatures and healthy plant life.Everyone has bad days, so don’t feel like you’ve failed at being positive if you’re feeling down. Just do your best to get back into your positive mindset.
3Interact with people when you’re in social situations. Being a social butterfly makes people see you as a confident, attractive person. At first, this might seem hard to do. Keep things simple by just talking to people and participating in what’s happening.[14]XResearch sourceOver time, you’ll get better at social interactions. Don’t give up if you feel awkward at first.Try walking up to someone and saying something like, “Is this your first time here?” or “How do you know Matt?”
Tip: Talking to a bunch of people and floating around the room will make you seem more popular. It doesn’t matter if the people are your friends. Just talking to them is enough to make you seem like the most in-demand person there.
4Share your passion with other people. Being passionate about something makes you a more dynamic person, so people are more likely to see you as “hot.” Find something you’re passionate about, like music, writing, sports, or helping others. Then, talk about your passion and how you’re pursuing it.[15]XResearch sourceYou might say, “Music is the thing that keeps me going. Right now, I’m working on my guitar skills so I can get a gig in the local coffee shop.”
5Be a little mysterious instead of sharing everything about yourself. When you seem mysterious, people are naturally drawn to you because they want to know more. Give people just enough information about you to make yourself seem interesting. However, keep some private details to yourself.[16]XResearch sourceFor instance, let’s say you’ve been posting your poetry online. You might be really open about how important writing is to you and how your life inspires your poems. However, you might respond with “That’s too personal” or “I don’t like sharing too many private details” when people ask what inspired them.
6Show off your smarts. Being intelligent and opinionated makes you seem like a more interesting person, which attracts people to you. Learn about topics that interest you by keeping up with the news, reading, and watching documentaries. Then, share your knowledge when you’re having conversations with other people.[17]XResearch sourceFor instance, talk about your opinions on current events or show off your knowledge about the mission to Mars program.AdvertisementMethod 3Method 3 of 4:Taking Good Care of Yourself
1Eat a nutritious diet for healthy skin and more energy. Don’t worry about your weight or body shape because anyone can look hot. Instead, focus on healthy eating to support a strong body, glowing skin, and bountiful energy. Fill your plate with fresh produce, lean protein, and complex carbohydrates. However, avoid processed foods and added sugars.[18]XTrustworthy SourcePubMed CentralJournal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of HealthGo to sourceDon’t overly restrict your calories because you need proper nutrition to look and feel healthy.
2Exercise for 30 minutes a day for good health. Being active helps you maintain a healthy body, relieves stress, and boosts your energy. For best results, get at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise 5-7 days a week. Choose an exercise that you love so it’s easier to do. For instance, try the following:[19]XTrustworthy SourceMayo ClinicEducational website from one of the world’s leading hospitalsGo to sourcePlay a recreational sport.Take a dance class.Go hiking or walk around the block.Swim.Jog with a friend or your dog.
3Sleep 7-9 hours nightly so you’re well-rested. Being well-rested helps your skin look bright and healthy, and it helps you feel more energetic. To sleep better, keep your bedroom comfortable and only use your bed for sleeping. Additionally, wind down for bed by turning off screens 1-2 hours before bed and doing a relaxing activity, such as reading or taking a bath.[20]XTrustworthy SourceMayo ClinicEducational website from one of the world’s leading hospitalsGo to sourceTry to wake up and go to bed at the same time every day so you have a regular sleep schedule. This makes it easier to fall asleep and wake up.
Did You Know? If you’re a teenager, you need 8-10 hours of sleep each night to be properly rested.
4Care for your skin so it looks healthy. Great skin makes it easier to look hot, so follow a skin care routine. Wash your face twice a day with a mild cleanser, then apply a moisturizer. Similarly, moisturize your body daily to keep your skin soft and supple.[21]XTrustworthy SourceMayo ClinicEducational website from one of the world’s leading hospitalsGo to sourceIf you like, shave your underarms and legs regularly to remove the hair. However, don’t feel like you have to do this to be hot.
5Keep your nails manicured and toenails pedicured. Caring for your nails helps you have attractive hands and feet. To do this, trim and file your nails every 1-2 weeks so they look neat. If you like, you can also paint your nails.[22]XResearch sourceYou don’t need painted nails to be hot. However, neat nails will look more attractive, so it’s a good idea to trim and file them.
6Take good care of your teeth. Good oral hygiene is also very important for creating your hot girl look. Brush your teeth in the morning and evening and floss every day. Additionally, see your dentist for annual check-ups so your teeth stay in great shape.[23]XResearch sourceIf your teeth are discolored, over-the-counter whitening strips and toothpaste can help. However, check with your dentist before you use whitening products, as they aren’t right for everyone. Additionally, talk to your dentist if you’re interested in trying a professional teeth whitening procedure.If your teeth are crooked, braces or invisible teeth straighteners can help. However, don’t feel like you can’t be hot if you can’t afford these procedures. Imperfect teeth can be a quirk that makes you look different.AdvertisementMethod 4Method 4 of 4:Being More Confident
1Stop worrying what other people think about you. The only person’s opinion that matters is your own. Don’t let other people decide how you live or how you feel about yourself. Focus on creating a life you love and things will fall into place for you.[24]XResearch sourceTry not to compare yourself to others because you’ll always come up short. That’s because it’s common to compare your real life to everyone else’s highlight reel, which is unfair to you. Instead, only compare yourself to past you.
2Pursue your goals and interests so you have a full life. Being a well-rounded person with lots going on in your life makes you seem more interesting and desirable. Figure out what makes you happy and what you want most in your life, then create a plan that can make that happen. Make it clear to the people that you meet that you’re goal-driven and plan to get what you want.[25]XResearch sourceFor instance, let’s say your goal is to become a nurse and you also like dogs. You might volunteer at a local hospital and help raise money for the local animal shelter to pursue these goals.
3Focus on your strengths rather than your weaknesses. Everyone has weaknesses, so don’t let yours get you down. Instead, figure out what your strengths are so you can show them off. Once you know your strengths, try to build them further so you can be a more accomplished person. This can help you have the confidence that will make people see you as hot.[26]XResearch sourceFor example, you might have book smarts, be good at helping others, and be a talented writer. Celebrate these strengths and don’t be afraid to show them off.
4Make people pursue you instead of chasing them. When you try to make someone like you, it makes you seem less confident and attractive. However, getting someone to pursue you makes you seem more desirable. If you like someone, flirt with them so they know you’re interested. However, make them meet you halfway before you consider going out with them.[27]XResearch sourceFor instance, let’s say there’s a guy you like. You might flirt with him and give him your number, but wait for him to text before you contact him.Advertisement
